Well, he or she does underscore a problematic area…why indeed did Jenn Sterger (sp) wait so long to discuss the bizarre psycho sexual behavior that Brett displayed? From what I have read, Jenn never wanted to have this story revealed. EVER. Let that sink in. She NEVER wanted this story to air however, her male friend who happened to operate a web site (can’t remember if the site is a sports site, or a gossip site or both) found out about the texts and the pics of Brett’s penis and then began a campaign pressuring Jenn to tell the story to the public so he could post the story and run it on his site. Jenn wanted to wait and didn’t feel comfortable about going public. Evidently she trusted this male friend at the web site but that might have been a mistake? Or was it a calculated move on a clever Jenn’s part if it was a means to the end, the end being a multi million dollar lawsuit payoff. Many questions regarding this situation.

And the evidence so far points to Brett being the sole instigator, apparently becoming so obsessed by Jenn’s beauty that he just lost all perspective thought. Now this is such an important point that you ladies need to pay close attention to. I am about to reveal to you the absolute truth….the only truth….on why this behavior occurs.

We males love you females to such a degree that sometimes I wonder if females can grasp that concept. We are willing to risk everything for a woman that we fall in love with and make no mistake about it…….now this is the part of the confession that may confuse some women…Brett had fallen hopelessly in love (lust) with Jenn at that point. In other words, although nothing had occurred between the two of them, the mere presence of her caused Brett to desire her to the point of madness. He would have given her the world at that point if it was within his capability to do so. There would have been no therapy or intervention at that point that would have convinced Brett to fall out of love/lust with Jenn…maybe some opiate medication therapy would have been successful but I don’t want to muddle the subject even further with my futuristic theories on applied psychological medical practice. Let history run it’s course and prove my theories and we can discuss that at a later date. So this idea that once a man has become enthralled by a woman or fallen in love with a woman, many times this feeling becomes an all encompassing obsession that drives us to make statements or to express behaviors that society might consider illogical. And we have no control over this feeling, even while fully knowing that if we follow this feeling and pursue the female in question it might ruin us. Now that is not pragmatic and certainly is not what many would consider sane behavior. This is the ultimate power that women possess and if women would only realize this power and work together for the greater good of the human race, wars could be ended, violence could be eliminated, starvation ceased, and most all of the world’s problems would simply go away. All this would be accomplished because of a basic, simple truth finally being realized and addressed. And by men handing the keys of control over to women which may sound like a fairy tale, and indeed it will remain a fairy tale because women simply do not have the resolve to join together and give men what they want, which is themselves. Men just want to be with women…it is that simple. All the problems are a result of men wanting to control women to do their bidding. So if women had enough courage to say guess what, we are not giving you any more action until you do x y and z. Women have to realize that many males will never be able to practice monogamy. And there should be no penalty for this. This is where women joining forces comes into play. And women must never ever abuse this power or it’s right back to square one. Which will ultimately be the destruction of the human race.

Waaah, waah, Nat. Want a little cheese with your whine? Fire fighter divorce rates are extremely high. Just because your mummy & diddums are still together doesn’t make it a wonderful experience for all. My father is a retired detective. I was around a lot of cops and fire fighters. 9 in 10 are divorced. No bitterness at all. My parents are still married as well, but it’s not because my father wasn’t a cheater, it’s because my mother was stupid enough to take him back time and time again. I’m sure there are a lot of rattlesnakes that don’t bite. But I’m not wading knee deep into pile of them to find the one that doesn’t. If women want to cut the chances of someone being a cheater, avoid men in those professions. It’s just common sense.